We all know that parenting skills for success is a combination of love for our children and the ability to clear limits are consistent within a family routine. Of course, if parenting was so clear and easy to use programs such as the Super Nanny would not have had much success.
to educate children do not have a guide and it seems obvious confusion of parenting in our society. More and more people live far from their extended family, and be ablemake all signs of modern family life, parents are often forced to leave their children in day care. In these circumstances, parents expected to raise well-behaved, intelligent children.
And 'that parents are under way, incompetent? can demonstrate that the endless efforts to combine family and career, was a very difficult balance. More than ever parents to permit their parenting problems at some point. This is reflected in the booming market with Baby & Childincreasing number of products that support began to help with day to day parenting tasks. The market for child expects from us will be in the interest of creating and selling us useless toys incompetent. For every possible situation, we can overcome anything that will help us find him.
The world of products
While reading a Baby & Child magazine, there is one thing that every reader should find the right listings! There is hardly a page does not show a new and "innovative"Product: There may be a scarf belts again to remove your child for a few minutes, one-time pad out a new blanket, diapers, maternity stylish handbags. Many of these products are really interesting and very useful when it seems that parenting skills are links to products and devices, rather than parents.
A good example is the new "lock time-out. With a timer, the parent sits just his bad behavior on infant pad, set the timer and let the child'View'. The key feature of this product, it notifies the parent when the child leaves the "Naughty pad" is. It takes the "Step" Naughty idea to a new level, parents should set clear limits and discipline children, teach respect and understanding. If parents rely on technology to do, how children learn these important skills without clear explanation and patience?
Another example is the harness for safety reasons so that the childescape, in principle a good idea in situations dangerous, especially when the walk two years through a wild phase. It 'something to see, put a baby through the parking lot on a plate, if a parent hands full of shopping, is to see something very different, a little is drawn through the park, not to stop, get the look stones, leaves, or watch the passing cyclists. And 'our responsibility to stay close to childrenat any time instead of a string. We should stop and allow children to watch or listen at their own pace in safe places like the park, while ensuring that They are not in this one parking lot. You will quickly learn the difference in environments and what behaviors are acceptable and safe in the frame. In fact, learning to risk their own environment to make children more safety conscious.
Go to school and back, so I'm not outdoors, play the electionthe latest computer games for entertainment and learning outside the world of TV on the ground - at least we know that our children are safe, raises the question - Safe from what? to explore the children to take confidence and stifle the development of emotional problems as children grow up with little understanding of the real world.
The time-out pad, harness, computer games and many more products to help keep our children safe and our parenting skills, in line withWhat is the accepted social norm. We understand that all these measures help, in fact, the parent company to distract from the current situation, where the real parenting skills are most needed. The producers claim to have invented another aide to take the life of a parent is easier, but in reality these things are desperately looking for natural parenting skills.
Lack of confidence
No return in the eyes of our parents 'instincts' that reflect today's educational issues of our lack oftrust. We live in a society where parents should raise well behaved, quiet, comfortable, children are under the pressure of daily work life. If our children with a wild Today we are desperate for advice and help and we have completely failed.
It 's time to understand what is normal and what is superficial: our instincts are there for parents to bring to us naturally. And 'recommended product' miracle twice before losing look a bit 'moreparental control, and even when our children behave like little monkeys, we have our instincts to tell us what is really needed.
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